One thing I have noticed is in the last 12 months I have been contacted via PM's by over 12 new members that have not posted yet and they are all women.

Com'on guys pull your finger out! Don't let the poor girls do all your dirty work.
And on another note I find it repulsive if a man deserts his wife and kids when things are a little tough.
You all stick together in times of need not just piss off and let the wife face these monsters.
I would prefer to DIE 100 time than to give up and bring DOCS to justice one day.